tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7277472.post108698895456788324..comments2007-04-16T05:23:06.293-07:00Angry Bikerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09030103217271970316noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7277472.post-1104770851743481082005-01-03T08:47:00.000-08:002005-01-03T08:47:00.000-08:00Kathy,<br /><br /> Paul was a very close friend, and he had spoken of you to me. I had the highest regard for his artistic skills. In fact, we've been cleaning up the place here and I am hoping to find a cassette tape of original music we played in a band we'd formed together. If I do, perhaps you would like a copy (but I last saw/heard the tape something like 10 years ago, so may not find it). But I haven't got your email address, so...<br /><br />Yes, Sarah was a basket case, but what you may not know is that already their marriage was kind of rocky. I think that contributed to his drinking and getting on that bike that day, because it was very unusual behavior for him at that time (and we'd been close for 2 or 3 years by then).Angry Bikerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09030103217271970316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7277472.post-1104764566175066162005-01-03T07:02:00.000-08:002005-01-03T07:02:00.000-08:00Dear Angry Biker.. I can fill you in on some of the missing details about Paul Mace's life and death...I am Kathy, his ex-wife and I was on vacation in NY when the acident happened. All his friends decided to wait before telling me, for me to return as planned (2 wks later) because they did not want to give me bad news over the phone... The problem was, when I got back, Paul was not buried yet and nothing had been completed with paperwork, or services for family or friends. Because Paul and I were very close despite the divorce, it was just presumed that I would be able to handle all the arrangements because his new wife, Sara, was too distraught to complete anything....I took on this task because I loved Paul and knew he would not want things unsettled... So I had to notify all his family and what friends I knew of, arrange memorial services in CA, NY and in RI,; So at that time I never the chance to privately grieve the loss, I was too busy helping everyone else be able to say goodbye in a right way. It is a sad story and even sadder because there were people still, like yourself, that were not in the loop on what was happening. There is alot more to know of Paul that is good. you'd be surprised at al the acting work he did in tha past.. he was a working actor most of his life. When I maried him, he'd been on a break and never told me he was an actor... I found out while reading an interview with Perry King from The Lords Of Flatbush. Most of the articlewas about Paul, his voice, his skills and that he took a break to get away & become a carpenter! So, you are not the only one surprised by things with Paul...I am so glad you stuck with the decision to never drink & ride... stupidity = just a couple a beers and a tired mind getting on the back of that bike without a helmet on driven, a bike driven by another beer tired mind with less sense then him,. I am glad I found your post here about it.. I just happen to be playing around with the new google search engines and my family history and was putting names in to compare old to new search results. I cannot tell by the pic if I know you or not.. is your name Anthony? ... well, you can write me direct at KathMcBride@aol.com if you want more details..<br /><br />"So here we are, over 20 years later and I'm still mad at you, Mace." well... kinda..Celiac Disease Current Research Newshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15521794266190699380noreply@blogger.com